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Do self-help books actually help?

They are no longer hidden in the back corner of the book store. Today self-help books are a huge business and offer to solve pretty much any problem. The only question is – do they really help?

I can’t really recall when I bought my first self-help book. I’m a big fan of reading, but this selection was unknown to me until sometime in my mid-twenties. Books were a magical escape into a new world and I had not seen them as something offering a solution to my life problems. Then one of my friends recommended one of his favorite self-help books and my bookshelf became home to more and more titles that promised to improve my life in one way or another.

As I read, I started noticing something; First, none of these books offer magical solutions, because there are no magical solutions in life. Secondly, they can’t do much, other than to inspire you to take actions that will lead you to the desired outcome. And thirdly, just reading them without implementing their messages won’t get you anywhere. However, getting a book that will help you with your problems is a step in the right direction as you’re taking action and you are willing to make some changes.

What I noticed from my personal experience is that in order for the books to help, you have to read them with an open mind. You may feel tempted to roll your eyes every once in a while, but try to stay open minded.

It took me a while to understand that knowing something and actually doing it are two different things.

That’s why these books work more as reminders and a source of inspiration and will hopefully give you the little push you need in the right direction. That is also why I like to come back to them, to make sure I stay on the right track and I don’t forget to apply the wisdom to my everyday life. It has no use if it stays on the pages.

I guess my point is that self-help books can, like any other books, be good or bad. Some authors are better than others and some you may not like at all. If you decide to give them a chance, research a bit before you click ‘add to cart’. Also, be open-minded. In my case self-help books helped me learn some things and they helped me improve my life to the extent of how much I worked on it. And for me, there will always be more room on my bookshelf for new self-help titles. After all, life is a work in progress.


By: Ivona Iwarra Josipovic / Photo cred 

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    Samantha
    May 10, 2017 at 9:53 pm

    LOVE this! Do you have a favorite self-help book? What one was recommended to you? I like ‘Tools of Titans’ by Tim Ferriss because it has little snippets of inspiration and tricks for when you’re short on time and ‘You Are A Badass’. 🙂

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      Iwarra
      May 15, 2017 at 10:40 pm

      Thank you, Samantha. It is so funny you mentioned ‘You Are a Badass’! I listened to it recently and loved it so much that I ordered a physical copy! It’s here on my table and I’m reading it for a second time, highlighting the best parts. I guess I could say it is one of my favourites. 🙂
      And the one that my friend recommended to me was ‘Think And Grow Rich’ by Napoleon Hill. It is from 1937, but is still very popular. I must admit that I have to read it again as it’s been a while and I don’t remember much.

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